Karen Dehais
Concluding this season is a conversation with Karen Dehais ’85, detailing her work with Catholic Charities, her continued service to Notre Dame, and thoughts on finding balance in her career and family life.
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Jesus was teaching in a synagogue on the sabbath.
And a woman was there who for eighteen years
had been crippled by a spirit;
she was bent over, completely incapable of standing erect.
When Jesus saw her, he called to her and said,
“Woman, you are set free of your infirmity.”
He laid his hands on her,
and she at once stood up straight and glorified God.
But the leader of the synagogue,
indignant that Jesus had cured on the sabbath,
said to the crowd in reply,
“There are six days when work should be done.
Come on those days to be cured, not on the sabbath day.”
The Lord said to him in reply, “Hypocrites!
Does not each one of you on the sabbath
untie his ox or his ass from the manger
and lead it out for watering?
This daughter of Abraham,
whom Satan has bound for eighteen years now,
ought she not to have been set free on the sabbath day
from this bondage?”
When he said this, all his adversaries were humiliated;
and the whole crowd rejoiced at all the splendid deeds done by him.
Excerpts from the Lectionary for Mass for Use in the Dioceses of the United States of America, second typical edition © 2001, 1998, 1997, 1986, 1970 Confraternity of Christian Doctrine, Inc., Washington, DC. Used with permission. All rights reserved. No portion of this text may be reproduced by any means without permission in writing from the copyright owner. The full readings of the day from the Lectionary are available here.
“There are six days when work should be done. Come on those days to be cured, not on the sabbath day.” These words from the synagogue leader seem absurd considering the degree of pain and suffering the woman in need of healing must have endured. Yet, how often do we abide by this same logic? Especially for those of us who have learned to thrive on disciplined habits and routines, it’s normal to cling to regimens, schedules, and categorical boundaries that can get in the way of our primary vocation.
I’m mindful of the times when I’ve wished that my children’s homework questions, late-night rehearsals, or illnesses could wait until I’m on the other side of my own work deadlines. Or the times when I find myself debating which route to take through the office for fear of getting stopped and falling behind on the way to accomplish the next item on my to-do list.
How contrary to the vocation of motherhood, though, to say to a child, “These are the days or the hours when you’re allowed to get sick, or come to me with your questions, or schedule your baseball games!” How opposed to our humanity to signal to a colleague: “I don’t have time to encounter you in this moment!”
Jesus’s healing of the crippled woman on the Sabbath reminds us that our obligation to love knows no bounds. No one gets to schedule their child’s, spouse’s, student’s, friend’s, co-worker’s, or even fellow stranger’s hour of greatest need. Simply put: There are no days off, no away messages, no breaks from loving our neighbor. That call is written on our hearts, 7 days a week, 365 days a year.
Rabbi Heschel once wrote, “To the biblical mind, […] the Sabbath is not for the sake of the weekdays; the weekdays are for the sake of the Sabbath. The Sabbath is not an interlude but the climax of living.” Luke’s Gospel echoes those same sentiments, with Christ essentially asking the synagogue leader, but also each one of us: Who and what are you working for this week? Is it not to love as I have loved you?
Lord Jesus, we come before you, stooped and burdened with troubles, worries, and fears. We look to you for healing, for assistance, or at the very least for the hope that healing and help will come. Let nothing in our hearts stand in your way. Amen.
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