It’s the holidays! Even if, like me, you are not a fan of the onslaught of advertising from the big box stores, it’s still pretty cool to think about the birth of a newborn who was both God and human, both savior and helpless child. It is inspiring each year to remember that God loved us so much that he dignified our existence by becoming human.

As I read the familiar gospel text for today, I am struck most by Joseph’s attentiveness and courage. Joseph had enormous power over Mary by what he could decide to do or not do. Agreeing to stay with Mary in light of her condition would protect her, but it would also expose him to ridicule and condemnation from his peers and, quite possibly, ostracization from his extended family.

When have I ever taken such a risk? When have the stakes in my life been this high?

The truth is very few. On most days, I face relatively mild questions about what I will prepare for dinner, how to support my children’s growth, or manage challenges at work.

But, perhaps I am not being attentive to the quiet ways God calls me to be brave and courageous. How might I be a better listener? How might I use my power, privilege, or position to protect those around me? Am I willing to risk ridicule, condemnation, and even ostracization for those who are most vulnerable? And if not, how might my heart be softened?

Blessings on you and your families in this magical holiday season as we prepare to remember Christ’s birth.