Daily Gospel Reflection
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February 23, 2020
Jesus said to his disciples, “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, offer no resistance to one who is evil.
“If anyone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other also; and if anyone wants to sue you and take your tunic, give your cloak as well; and if anyone forces you to go one mile, go also the second mile. Give to everyone who begs from you, and do not refuse anyone who wants to borrow from you.”
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in heaven; for he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the righteous and on the unrighteous.
“For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet only your brothers and sisters, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.”
Let’s face it: loving others is a lot easier when they give you a reason to love them back.
As my simple childhood friendships evolved into complex adult relationships, I quickly realized that other human beings, whether intentionally or unintentionally, could hurt me. But how could I respond in love to someone who tosses my feelings aside? How do I help the high school soccer star, who callously told the entire class he manipulated my crush on him so I’d teach him Algebra II, when he desperately cries out for assistance to pass his final exam? How do I answer the 3 a.m. phone call of a stressed friend who cancelled our Friday plans to hang out with “cooler people”? How do I remain supportive and present to a romantic interest who only shows me kindness when he’s lonely, or to a coworker trying to push ahead of me at work?
In today’s Gospel, Jesus urges us to love in a way that doesn’t require—let alone expect—love or respect in return. Unlike reciprocated love, Jesus acknowledges that love of the people who treat you poorly is a hard and extraordinary kind of love beyond society’s typical calling. “If you greet only your brothers and sisters, what more are you doing than others?” he implores. Our intent to love even our enemies freely gives us a window into the unconditional and perfect love God has for us—even when we don’t offer in return the love and respect God deserves.
As we encounter difficult relationships in our lives, let us have the grace and strength to respond with this difficult but supernatural love and in turn mirror God’s love for us.
Prayer
Lord Jesus: These are hard sayings: to forego revenge, to give more than is due, to walk the extra mile, to love my enemy! Help me, Lord Jesus, to embrace them and to become the child of God you call me to be. Amen.
Saint of the Day
St. Polycarp was an important early martyr, and the story of his death is famous because he was miraculously preserved when they tried to burn him at the stake.
Polycarp was among a group of Church fathers who were in the first generation of Christians to be taught by the disciples themselves—he learned the faith from St. John, and in turn, Polycarp taught others, such as St. Irenaeus.
Polycarp lived at a time when the faith was still taking shape—the smallest deviation from the truth that he had received would have long-reaching consequences for us today, and he seemed to be aware of that. He had no patience for those who distorted the faith. The story is told that he once passed by a man in Rome who was teaching the faith with error. When it seemed that Polycarp walked by him without recognizing him, the man called out, “Do you not know me?” Polycarp replied, “I know you—you are the first-born of Satan!”
He was an active leader in the early Church, writing letters to far-flung Christian communities and engaging the pope on matters such as the date of Easter. But Polycarp is most famous for the account of his martyrdom.
He lived during a time of persecution, and while some Christians were willingly giving up their lives—going so far as to turn themselves in to be eaten by lions—he is remembered for being ready to die for his faith, but also living to spread that faith for as long as he could.
When he was to be arrested, he fled and hid for as long as he could. He was eventually betrayed and when authorities finally discovered him, he refused to escape any further. He met the officials at the door, and even fed them supper. He only asked for a few hours to pray before they took him away.
He was taken to an outdoor amphitheater where a great crowd assembled to see him face a judge. He was ordered to renounce Christ, and he flatly refused, confessing his faith plainly and forthrightly.
“I have wild beasts,” the judge said.
“Call for them,” replied Polycarp, “for we will not be moved from good to evil.”
“If you hate the beasts, I will have you consumed by fire,” the judge said.
“You threaten me with fire that burns for a season and is quenched after a while” Polycarp replied, “but you do not know of the judgment to come and of the fire of eternal punishment that is prepared for the wicked. Why do you delay? Bring against me what you please.”
They built a pyre and placed him on it, and began to prepare to nail him to the stake. He told them to leave him alone, telling them that “the one who gives me grace to endure the fire will enable me to remain on the pyre unmoved.” They tied only his hands behind his back, and Polycarp proclaimed a moving prayer that praised God and asked that his death be a Christ-like sacrifice.
Witnesses report that when the wood at his feet was ignited, it swelled like the sails of a ship to gently surround Polycarp without burning him. They said that they could smell a fragrance like incense.
Seeing this, the authorities thrust a spear into his body, which finally killed him. This is remembered as happening on February 23, but scholars disagree as to whether it was 155 or 166. The relics of St. Polycarp rest in the reliquary chapel in the Basilica on campus.
St. Polycarp, you were the early Church martyr who was miraculously preserved from burning at the stake—pray for us!
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