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January 21, 2022

Memorial of Saint Agnes - Virgin and Martyr
Mk 3:13-19
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Jesus went up the mountain and summoned those whom he wanted
and they came to him.
He appointed Twelve, whom he also named Apostles,
that they might be with him
and he might send them forth to preach
and to have authority to drive out demons:
He appointed the Twelve:
Simon, whom he named Peter;
James, son of Zebedee,
and John the brother of James, whom he named Boanerges,
that is, sons of thunder;
Andrew, Philip, Bartholomew,
Matthew, Thomas, James the son of Alphaeus;
Thaddeus, Simon the Cananean,
and Judas Iscariot who betrayed him.

Reflection

Steve Camilleri '94, '01 MSA
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“The only way to have a friend is to be one.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

This quote hung in our house when I was a child growing up. I didn’t come from a big family so we called the friends of my parents our Aunts and Uncles. Essentially, our friends became our family.

I have always thought of the Apostles, chosen by Jesus, as the family he chose. “He summoned those whom he wanted and they came to him.” And like all families, it sure was an eclectic group of friends.

If only it was that easy to choose the friends we wanted, and they would like us in turn. Does that mean Emerson was wrong? I thought that the only way to have a friend is to be one. As many of us have experienced throughout our lives, it’s not always that simple.

But what about Jesus? Jesus summoned the twelve. They came to him, he appointed them, and he sent them out. He even gave some of them new names! Who does this guy think he is?

He is the best friend, who loved us first, that every one of us can have!

Let us not forget that with all Jesus charged the Apostles to do, he accompanied them. He not only calls each of us to our life’s purpose, but he equips us, prepares us, and walks along with us! Jesus constantly spends time with us and is always there for us—the sign of a true friend.

Prayer

Members of the Holy Cross Novitiate

Eternal God, as we await the coming of your Son in glory, raise up men and women to bring your message of hope to a waiting world. Instill in them an unshakable trust in your divine providence and a zeal for ministry that will inspire your people to a deeper confidence in your saving power. We ask this through Christ, our Lord. Amen.

Saint of the Day

St. Agnes

St. Agnes is one of the most famous early Christian martyrs and is mentioned in one of the Eucharistic prayers of the Mass. She is a patron saint of those seeking chastity and purity because of the legend around her martyrdom.

The story is told that Agnes was a stunningly beautiful girl of thirteen who lived in Rome when Emperor Diocletian began violently persecuting Christians in 303. Young nobles asked for her hand, but she declared herself the bride of Christ. Rebuffed, the young men formally accused her of being a Christian, and she was arrested and brought to trial.

The judge first began to entice her to deny her faith; she flatly refused. He soon turned to threats, and when they had no effect, he had instruments of torture brought forth. Agnes only grew in joy.

The judge knew she valued her purity above all, and threatened to expose her in a house of prostitution, that anyone in the city could come to defile her. “You may stain your sword with my blood,” she said, “but you will never be able to profane my body, which is consecrated to Christ.” The men who approached her in the brothel were awed by her holiness and left her alone.

Her suitors were by now enraged at her stubbornness, and they enticed the judge to order her beheaded. It is said that she went to the place of her execution as joyfully as if she were headed to her wedding.

This legend cannot be proven true, and is likely full of elaboration. Based on archeological evidence, however, it is true that a young girl of thirteen, a virgin named Agnes, was martyred in Rome and honored for her sacrifice. A church was built over her tomb, and her relics venerated.

Agnes is often represented with a lamb because the Latin word for lamb, agnus, resembles her name. Additionally, some traditions say that she was killed by being stabbed in the throat—similar to how lambs are slaughtered.

On this date every year, two white lambs are blessed in the church in Rome that is dedicated to her. The lambs are cared for until it is time for their shearing, and their wool is woven into pallia, small round collars. The pallia are laid upon the altar above the tomb of St. Peter and then sent to new archbishops around the world as a symbol of their authority and union with the pope.

St. Agnes is represented in today's featured image of the mural from the walls of the Basilica.

St. Agnes, the courageous young girl who placed faithfulness over death—pray for us!