Daily Gospel Reflection
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March 5, 2024
Peter approached Jesus and asked him,
“Lord, if my brother sins against me,
how often must I forgive him?
As many as seven times?”
Jesus answered, “I say to you, not seven times but seventy-seven times.
That is why the Kingdom of heaven may be likened to a king
who decided to settle accounts with his servants.
When he began the accounting,
a debtor was brought before him who owed him a huge amount.
Since he had no way of paying it back,
his master ordered him to be sold,
along with his wife, his children, and all his property,
in payment of the debt.
At that, the servant fell down, did him homage, and said,
‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back in full.’
Moved with compassion the master of that servant
let him go and forgave him the loan.
When that servant had left, he found one of his fellow servants
who owed him a much smaller amount.
He seized him and started to choke him, demanding,
‘Pay back what you owe.’
Falling to his knees, his fellow servant begged him,
‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’
But he refused.
Instead, he had him put in prison
until he paid back the debt.
Now when his fellow servants saw what had happened,
they were deeply disturbed, and went to their master
and reported the whole affair.
His master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant!
I forgave you your entire debt because you begged me to.
Should you not have had pity on your fellow servant,
as I had pity on you?’
Then in anger his master handed him over to the torturers
until he should pay back the whole debt.
So will my heavenly Father do to you,
unless each of you forgives your brother from your heart.
Around the holidays, my bible study group discussed the challenges of forgiveness, specifically how difficult it might be to see family or friends at holiday gatherings who have hurt us even if we have already forgiven them.
What do we do when our offender isn’t remorseful for the pain they have caused in the past? What do we do if they refuse to change their behavior and continue to hurt us? How do we set healthy boundaries when we can’t always distance ourselves? Today’s gospel informs us that forgiveness is a continual process and challenges us to find a way, each day, to forgive again.
The path God calls us to is not easy. For some of us, forgiving can take years as we work through our inner healing. It requires a reckoning with our past and the vulnerability and courage to let go of offenses before God for our future. Finally, we arrive at what may seem like the finish line, tired but ready to make peace.
Then, we might be hurt again. And Jesus commands us to start over, forgive again, and not just one more time but up to seventy-seven times. Jesus isn’t inviting us into a never-ending battle. He is inviting us into a life-saving habit that brings redemption and peace.
Each day, God gives us opportunities to practice forgiveness, such as the person who cuts us off on the road or is rude at the grocery store. These small offenses are essential practices to strengthen us in resolving the bigger offenses. They allow us to create a habit of forgiving daily and often. When it may seem too difficult to continue, let’s be reminded that we have God, who shows us mercy again and again.
Prayer
Lord God, in your great mercy, you sent your Son to pour out himself for our sins. By his blood, he paid the price that we cannot pay. May we always give thanks for so great a gift of love, and may we, in turn, show your love and mercy to our neighbors. Give us the gift of your healing forgiveness to soften our hearts to be able to love as you do. We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.