Daily Gospel Reflection
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September 15, 2026
Standing by the cross of Jesus were his mother
and his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas,
and Mary Magdalene.
When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple there whom he loved
he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son.”
Then he said to the disciple,
“Behold, your mother.”
And from that hour the disciple took her into his home.
Excerpts from the Lectionary for Mass for Use in the Dioceses of the United States of America, second typical edition © 2001, 1998, 1997, 1986, 1970 Confraternity of Christian Doctrine, Inc., Washington, DC. Used with permission. All rights reserved. No portion of this text may be reproduced by any means without permission in writing from the copyright owner. The full readings of the day from the Lectionary are available here.
Reflection
Loving is hard; it can even look like standing at the foot of the cross. As disciples of Christ, we are called to love beyond the comforts and conveniences into the hard, stark reality of loving when it is costly. On this feast of the patroness of the Congregation of Holy Cross, we keep our station with the sorrowful mother whose heart is pierced by unwavering love for her son.
C.S. Lewis wrote, “Love anything and your heart will be wrung, and possibly be broken.” I don’t think I really understood the power of this sentiment until I watched how my mother lovingly cared for her father in the final hours of his life, staying that night in the hospital with him as he moved closer to death. She had cared for him for years as he slowly declined, but in these final moments it was evident to me that while she was mourning and grieving the imminent death of her parent, she loved him deeply. Despite the heartbreak, grief, and sorrow, she remained present not out of duty or fear, but of gentle and generous love for the man who raised her.
Years later, when I had the supreme privilege of anointing and eventually burying my own father, I understood the beauty of loving another at the foot of their cross. Our Lady of Sorrows stands beside the cross of Jesus, grieving and mourning; Mary loves her Son in her sorrow.
She does not flee when fear and despair scatter the apostles, nor does she waver when mourning rends her immaculate heart. She is faithful when fidelity means feeling to the utmost every sorrow. Our Lady of Sorrows models for each of us how costly love can be, and how love truly believes, endures, and overcomes all things. Our Lady and Mother, shows us, her sons and daughters, the glory and the hope of the cross, as Jesus himself entrusts us to her tender care.
Prayer
God, grant us the patience to live as Our Lady of Sorrows did, a perfect model of hope at the foot of the cross. Thank you for providing us such a profound example of love and acceptance of your will. We don’t have to bear our daily crosses alone, for you have given us your son, Jesus Christ, and his mother, Mary, to help us find our way. Please bless the Congregation of Holy Cross and all of its lay collaborators, benefactors, and friends as we celebrate our patroness today.
Saint of the Day
“There stood by the Cross of Jesus his mother Mary, who knew grief and was a Lady of Sorrows. She is our special patroness, a woman who bore much she could not understand and who stood fast. To her many sons and daughters, whose devotions ought to bring them often to her side, she tells much of this daily cross and its daily hope” (Constitutions of the Congregation of Holy Cross, 8:120).
When deciding on a patron for the Congregation of Holy Cross, founder Blessed Basil Moreau selected Our Lady of Sorrows.
Moreau’s original vision was that the Congregation of Holy Cross, which founded the University, be one community of priests, brothers and sisters living and working together in imitation of the Holy Family. He consecrated the priests to the Sacred Heart of Jesus, the sisters to the Immaculate Heart of Mary, and the brothers to Saint Joseph. He placed the entire Congregation under the patronage of Our Lady of Sorrows.
Moreau often stressed the importance of conforming one’s entire life to Christ, which Mary models through her seven sorrows:
1. The Prophecy of Simeon (Luke 2: 34-35): Simeon told Mary that her son would be the rise and fall of many people and that a sword would pierce her heart so that many would know her thoughts.
2. The Flight into Egypt (Matthew 2:13): Joseph responds to a dream to take Mary and Jesus into Egypt to keep them safe. Today, we pray for the safety and security of all refugees.
3. The loss of the child Jesus in the Temple (Luke 2:43-45): Mary and Joseph thought Jesus was in the caravan after leaving Jerusalem. After three days, they found Jesus listening and teaching in the Temple of Jerusalem. Mary said to Jesus, “Why have you done this to us?”
4. Mary meets Jesus on the way to Calvary (Luke 23: 26-32): Jesus, carrying his cross told the women of Jerusalem not to weep for him, but for themselves and their children.
5. Jesus dies on the cross (John 19:25): Mary and John are bonded by the words of Jesus. The Church is born in this moment from suffering and relationship.
6. Mary receives the body of Jesus in her arms (Matthew 27:57-59): Mary receives her inconsolable suffering, the body of her son.
7. The body of Jesus is placed in the tomb (John 19:40-42): Mary and Jesus’ disciples stand together in their loss.
The Holy Cross motto, Ave crux, spes unica—“Hail the cross, our only hope”—invites us to stand at the foot of the cross alongside our sorrowful mother.
Mary is the perfect model of this hope. Even in the midst of her seven sorrows, she never despaired. Her faith endured through this suffering and so she shared in her Son’s victory over death. We believe that her intercession and patronage can help us do the same.
The Feast of Our Lady of Sorrows is the biggest feast day for Congregation of Holy Cross priests, brothers, and sisters throughout the world. Each community honors the feast day differently, but members usually come together as a larger community for prayer and celebration.
Our Lady of Sorrows is depicted on campus in a number of ways, including this sculpture in the Cedar Grove cemetery on campus, and in this sculpture from the chapel in Howard Hall, which commemorates those who were killed in World War II.
Our Lady of Sorrows, you stood with hope by Jesus on the cross and are patroness of Holy Cross religious, pray for us!
To learn more, watch this video of Father Nate Wills, C.S.C., describing Our Lady of Sorrows to pilgrims who walked the Notre Dame Trail in celebration of Notre Dame's 175th anniversary.