Erin Cain ’11

Just two words from Jesus are enough for Matthew to leave his whole life behind and begin anew. I imagine the warmth that must have been present in Jesus’ words, “Follow me.” In that instant, Matthew would have recognized not only that he was being called to change his ways, but also that he was loved and chosen. Jesus made him feel seen in the best and worst way, and he chose to follow.

Last summer, I went on pilgrimage with the Frassati Fellowship of NYC. On our journey in the footsteps of Blessed Pier Giorgio Frassati, we hiked the Alps, taking in breathtaking landscapes. It was an incredible experience, though not one I would ever have sought on my own. I am not an outdoorsy person nor particularly athletic.

Before our hike, we reflected on the question: “Why do you climb mountains?” Perhaps it was to appreciate nature, push oneself to achieve more, or reach toward the heights. My honest answer, however, was that I climb mountains because my friends climb mountains. If it weren’t for their presence calling me on, I wouldn’t have been there.

Through being part of the Notre Dame community and the Frassati Fellowship, I’ve been blessed to have spiritual friendships that call me higher, literally and metaphorically. Yes, I was grateful to have taken in those mountaintop views, but what drew me up there were the friends who accompanied me. In their presence, I felt seen, known, and loved. Just as they led me up the mountain, they also led me closer to Christ. Something that would normally have been a heavy burden for me was made light. I wanted to remain in their company, so if they were climbing a mountain, so was I.

In the same way, whenever Jesus calls us, it is not without that sense of loving friendship that makes it possible for us to take the leap and dare to follow where he leads.