Today’s gospel has Jesus urging his disciples to proclaim the Good News. As present-day disciples, we must continue proclaiming that Good News to all we meet.

Each day, we need to remind ourselves that the day ahead will present many opportunities for us to walk in the footsteps of Jesus. We must remember that every encounter we have with others is a touchpoint with another person and a chance for us to be a disciple of Jesus.

If we can focus on others’ needs as Jesus did, our interactions are more likely to have a positive effect. If we choose to be self-centered, then opportunities are lost. Do we want to be present as lightness or darkness to others? All it takes, at times, is a smile, kind word, or simple acknowledgment of their presence.

Currently, I facilitate workshops on leadership for working professionals. I ask them to assess every person they encounter; did they “fill that person’s cup” or “drain it?” We all have people in our lives we are happy to see. Are we that person in the lives of others?

We also have people who drain us. Jesus’ challenge to us is how to engage those we wish to avoid—those who drain us. How do we change the dynamic of our relationship so we both become “fillers?” We need to ask the Lord for the patience and humility mentioned in today’s reading, “Wrap yourselves in humility to be servants of each other.” In this way, we may be a more positive influence on others.

Ultimately, we will be remembered not for our job titles, personal possessions, or awards but for how we made others feel. The Lord, even after he was gone, was with the disciples as they went forth. When we “fill” rather than “drain,” we can be assured that the Lord is present and pleased.